It's nice to have so many opinions about a child's choosing to search out a different spirituality. My nephew tends to whine about going to church and my brother gets upset that the children today are growing up with so many influences, it's almost impossible to keep them from them. The more my brother fights it though, the more my nephew will resent him later. My sister in-law told me that she's leaning more toward just to loving them for who they are and guiding them gently toward the lord is the best. I tend to agree, maybe it's a woman thing. Instead of getting so upset, she's able to stay calm and remain in a healthy relationship with him and God at the same time.