coffee,
My sons and my oldest daughter are going throught the same thing. I keep reminding myself that I raised them to make up their own minds and I'm hoping this is what they are doing. I know they still believe in God and that is my consolation. My oldest doesn't want to participate in organized religion but he does believe so I hold my tongue. My second son is just lazy someday he'll come around. My daughter has been to hell and back and still on the road. She sees her problems as God's way of punishing her for some unknown act she has committed. She has yet to reach the phase where she looks at the negatives as positives. I pray for my three older children and ask God to continue to put the paths there for them and I am trying to ensure that my preschooler will not have the same issues when she is a young adult. I don't know if this helps at all but I will add your children to my prayers. For there is no greater place to be than with God.

Chris(angel)