What is it about girlfriends? We women are so sincere! I watched "Steel Magnolias" for the very first time a couple weeks ago. Don't know if you saw it, or if you remember this, but...there was a cemetery scene and everyone had walked away leaving the grieving mother at the grave-side of her daughter. The men are shown looking sad and feeling bad, getting in their cars, etc. The women look back and see their dear friend at the grave-side all alone, and they trickle back to love and support her. During that time she was able to share her true feelings with them and let it all out. The whole "friends heal friends" scene was right before my eyes. I loved it!