Diann I'm not sure what this project is but with all your contacts and all the women you know through your site couldn't she just be small part of the project, open it up to others with similar stories and concentrate on those that seem to be really serious about doing a project. I know shes your friend and you love her to death BUT she seems very inconsiderate to me and a bit scatter rained as well. Good luck with whatever you decide... [Wink]