I absolutely agree with you JJ! As a matter of fact,I was just thinking those very same thoughts last night as I pondered about the post saying it was unhealthy to be too reclusivness. I said to myself, that I felt perfectly normal & I didn't feel reclusive about being at home most of the time. I didn't feel strange, odd, or unhealthy at all. I do visit my family on occasion, but I am no social butterfly neither. It feels peaceful. I like my own company!