I asked my husband if he did the things I do and he said no and seemed surprised that I did it. So today I took notice and realized that if I'm sitting in traffic and a big truck is close to me -- I count the lug nuts -- and the windows in a bus. I especially like to count by 2's.

Could very well be one of the ways I learned to cope with stressful situations as a child and its just stuck with me. Since I cant readily "switch" anymore, I'm starting to realize all my little "ways" as I learn how to deal with emotion.

But hey -- I could be sitting in traffic smoking a cig instead of counting lug nuts ;-)