hi Karen... four cats ?? Now that's a good sign. Were they strays you gradually started collecting? The one we have now was a stray from the bush, the one before was picked up by a cougar. We gave our oldest daughter the same name. I think it really does mean deep hearted and gentle. Out of curiosity I looked up suffolk county, (because some ancestors arrived off the boat in new york in 1710) but i ended up reading the news articles instead. What's your opinion about the 'ancient burial' ground that i see has just been discovered ?