Sorry the gals group didn't work out for you, but you'll find another one that's perfect for you. I'm still hanging out with several other crocheters/knitters a couple of times a week. We call our group Chains & Purls & we've been together for about 4 years now. We've gotten to know each other, celebrated birthdays & mourned along with two of the gals who've lost their husbands during that time. We laugh about the knitting/crocheting being just an excuse to get together & have fun, laugh & be silly. One member calls them therapy sessions. LOL! Maybe it's not a group of widows you need, just a group of happy gals who enjoy each other's company. It's a pity you don't live near here, you'd make a great addition to our little group.