Dotsie and Edelweiss I'm sorry to hear of your concerns and
difficulties with the elder care issue. I don't know. My folks' used to say, "one dad can take care of 11 kids, but 11 kids can't
care for 1 dad." These past 5 years I've dealt my friend being
in a nursing home. But none of her steps go to see her; I'm the
only person that visits her any more. So I don't have any answers for you; just want you know I understand what you're
going through. Prayers and blessings,