OMG, I think about this all the time. Y'all know by now I'm damaged and need to see a shrink. But... I do love two different men. One loves me without question, we have fun, have lots in common, a 10 year history and he's willing to go to the ends of the earth with me (money problems notwithstanding). But, I have NO physical attraction to him. I think I can deal with that.

The other loves me too, in his own way, we just don't have a long history together like the one mentioned above. And physically he does it for me. But I'd be doing much adventure alone, which is a downside.

So yeah, if I choose either of the above I am settling, which is bad. If you all can slap some sense into me, I'd appreciate it.

WW