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#201145 - 03/19/10 10:18 AM
Re: OMG!!!!!!!!!
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Poor Sandy - I know his sorry look b/c I saw it in my husband. The oh shiza what have I done but I'm gonna deny it b/c she's a great gal and I goofed look. Yeah, seen that.
Cheating is wrong. Many politicians and those with in positions of authority cheat - gosh our nation was created by cheating men. I do care - cheaters make decisions based upon their infidelity that affect others (spouse, family, children, religeon, business, politics, enconomy, etc.). Why enable infidelity? I have no regard for those with low ethics.
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#201147 - 03/19/10 10:59 AM
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I bet her fan base increased even more: She moved out shortly from the house she shared with him.
Good for her.
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#201153 - 03/19/10 12:11 PM
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Poor Sandy...What is wrong with these men? He didn't deserve her..I hope she gets out of that marriage fast and never looks back!!
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#201218 - 03/21/10 11:51 AM
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I'm saddened to hear about Sandra Bullock as well, mostly, I suspect, because she's so down-to-earth. As depressing as these stories are, though, I think we need to remember that just as many women as men probably ought to have warning signs on them. We do terrible things as well. Plenty of women cheat on their husbands. There are even a lot of men raising children who aren't theirs biologically; I suspect a number of them suspect what has happened but are saints who are not going to take it out on a little kid.
There are way too many men who are willing to abandon their wives and families. But there are women who 'oops' their husbands or boyfriends, deciding that what they want is more important and the guy will just have to be stuck with paying childcare. I'm having a really hard time seeing women as a group as more caring or moral than men. Sure, I know women who got dumped, but I know men in the same boat. It's not all one way.
And I don't happen to believe that people who get involved with married men are worse; they're both behaving badly. We all have temptations and we all have the responsibility to do the right thing. It's not ok to steal things if no one is watching. It's not ok to complain that you couldn't help yourself. Grownups do not offer excuses for their bad behavior.
Back to the topic, Sandra is a smart, wealthy woman. I hope and trust that she'll do what's best for herself. This cannot be any easier for her than it is for anyone else. I *do* think any personal business that becomes public must be that much more difficult to deal with.
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#201220 - 03/21/10 12:14 PM
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Myself, like maybe some folks here, probably don't belong in social circles where there have been 1-2 women who were sexually unfaithful in their marriages. So it might give us the blinkered viewpoint.
I'm reminded of this when I hear side stories of strangers.. But there is a whole subculture of women friends who are far more flamboyant / lasseiz-faire in their sexual relationships with men ..and they talk about it amongst one another.
In ways, for eavesdropper like me, is totally foreign.
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