Anne327,
You take care of you. I'm happy you won't accept abusive behavior from anyone. Life is 2 short, 2 B the object of abuse. Over the last few years, I've discovered some of the elderly are placed in facilities 4 the demented, while they're yet mentally fit and fine. Some family members are not nice folks and can't wait for ma or pa 2 pass on. There, the older person finds him or herself in a group of wacked out peers. Something like this rots, big time, but it happens. All I can say is, God help the elderly. "Old age isn't 4 sissies," was my friend's favorite saying. Anne, I've got to get off this subject B 4 I get myself in trouble. You hang in there girl and only work where you feel safe!