While you have to focus on you and your other children, you are still his mother. That's why you continue to want to help him be the best he can be. If you think he'd be better off in jail, and that you would also be better off with him in jail, then I say turn him in. It sounds like a win/win.

I'm so sorry you have to live with this. It's heart wrenching.
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