Kate, you may be saving his life by turning him in. While I know it must be hard, it seems like you think that's best for him, and I agree. He's probably safer there than on the streets.

I have a friend whose son did jail time and after he was there for a bit, it was a rather peaceful time for her because she knew where he was, and that he was basically being cared for.

You need to look out for your peace of mind too.
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