Hello Kathleen,
I haven't been around much lately, so I am just catching up on your new situation. I completely relate to your statement about being dumped in the middle of something new and all of the learning that goes along with these type of situations.

It's not always easy to see the silver linings, but we need to keep on trying. I now have mom over every Sunday, and it would be so easy to resent this. But, she says the nicest things to me (over and over and over and over - she, too, has alz) that each time we get together, I feel better afterwards.

You are on crutches on top of all of these changes? Whoa, girl. Take good care of yourself. Relax, enjoy life when you are able, and look for the bright side if you are able.