Yeah, Lora,
major flags! Son stealing your wine and no consequences!
I can see why you're concerned.
Move slowly, that's all I can say.

Children don't need pity. Neither do 20 somethings. they need encouragement and sometimes a leg up. But this can go too far
I think you are very wise to be as cautious as you are.
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