lora, Just relax, get your priorities straight in your own home first, your job, your house, your needs should come first with you or they will never come first with anyone else. Date this man if you want to but make it be a date, he takes you out to dinner, shows, whatever, then you GO HOME to your house. If he wants more he will have to make a decision, YES he has to do that! Either he wants YOU or the son. There is NO grey here especially before you make any type of serious commitment. Watch those red flags because they are flying high. Good luck!!
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