Kate, go to court. If you don't and then need to go later you will not be taken seriously. The same with the outfit that will collect what that slug owes you in back child support. Hang tough, let them fight your fight you have done your part lady. All these men need to be taught that they CAN'T HAVE THEIR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO...
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