Chatty,

Child Support enforcement is taking care of collecting past child support - but I could use help getting past and current maintenance due. So if you find that name..please let me know!

Danita

How was your day in the mountains with your son?

I'm still looking Danita, I wish I would have written it down.

Dots,

My day with my son was amazing. We visited our old church, which made me a tad bit teary. I remember my ex sitting beside me just weeping after his secret life was found out. eeek. Sad memory.

Visited family friends, and spent the four hour drive chatting.

I have to tell you - since he arrived home - I cry much less. Its like someone planted my heart back in my chest.

I did find out today that I'm layed off from my Office Depot job. (which pays the bills). I'm believe the good Lord has something better waiting for me!

hugs,

danita

p.s. perhaps NOW the courts will see that I need my court ordered child support and maintenance.

p.p.s.s. Chatty, if you find it I would be thrilled!

Danita, so sorry to hear of your lay off, but boy do I love your attitude girl.

I serve on a local committee of about ten people. Of the ten, two husbands have been layed off (one a physician) and a child of a member (that would be my son), and one member said two good friends were layed off in the same day. This is getting out of control. Though I thought Obama's speech was hopeful.

The news about your heart is magnificent. I know how you ached when he was in Maryland. So glad that season is behind you.

Wow, getting a teenaged boy to chat for four hours must mean you have something special. Cherish it. I know you do.

MY ex found out last night he will be getting an extended 17 weeks of unemployment which will take him through June. I am not suer whether to laugh or cry. He will be able to help with space rent and pay for his car so long as he is here. He is looking for something sooner and hopefully he'll find it. Oh well!

Danita, I bet God does have something special waiting for you. I will pray he does.

Danita, I'm sorry about your layoff. Maybe the below site might be helpful:


https://childsupport.state.co.us/siteuser/do/vfs/Frag?file=/cm:app/cm:home.jsp

I know, Obama's speech was hopeful; yet, with more layoffs, how can anyone spend any money? And those with jobs that maybe anticipating a layoff, are saving money.

Hello ladies, it's me!

I know I haven't been on for quite a while, but as you know I've been going through a lot. The last few months have definitely been a roller coaster ride, but I have finally made a decision. I have decided to move out with my son. We found a rented place nearby and will be moving tomorrow. It has been a very hard decision but one I believe is right for us.

My husband and I have been going through a lot these past months, some good discussion and others not so good, and at the moment I am still a bit wobbly, but once I get out, I'm sure I will get stronger.

There will be a gap in my internet connection until I get sorted, but I will be back as soon as I can.

Thank you for all your support through my troubled time.

Expat, I wish you an oasis of peace in your new home, where you can gather strength and discover all what you are capable of.
It will surely not be easy finding your own true self and at the same time being a mother to your son, but you'll make it. I can tell from your posts how determined and strong you are!

Thank you ever so much, Edelweiss. I will do my best.