I have asked her so many times to come over and sort out her stuff. She just doesn't want to do it. She is a major procrastinator. It will interfere with her social life, partying on the weekends etc.

If I move to a place without an extra room for her it would depend on the situation. If she felt unsafe at her Dad's of course she could stay on the couch. But at the moment she does not want to commit to anything. No matter how much I try to explain to her that she needs to let me know where she wants to live her answer is "I DON'T KNOW" This answer drives me crazy.

So, I will try to find a place that I can afford that may have a small den or something that she can move into if she decides later to.

The big problem is the housing in the city of live in. The rent is $2200 to $3000 for a house. You can rent a floor in a house for approx.1300 to $2000, meaning the basement is usually rented out.

I'm trying to get a full 3 bed house with a basement or den but just can't afford to pay such a high rent on one income for a full house.

Not the easiest situation to be in that is why I need her to tell me. I am not going to all the expense of moving and then later she says she wants to move in. I can't afford to move again to accommodate her. She just doesn't get that she will make many changes and decisions in the future.

Kate