Kate, sounds like Canada is getting the same low morals as here in Europe. Teenagers stay overnight at their boyfriend’s or girlfriend’s house all the time. I was shocked, but like everything else…even that you can get used to. Our son’s did overnights when they were 18 and their girlfriend’s were just 16.

Please don’t misunderstand me, I don’t condone it. But the arguments the parents have here is, they rather know where their child is then having them take off somewhere secretly.

When I think back, no way would I have wanted to sleep with a boyfriend under my parent’s roof. In this case, your daughter is visiting her boyfriend’s apartment. Geez..they have coed dorms now. And those kids are just a year older.

I say don’t dwell on that issue to much. Make sure your daughter takes birth control pills, and just concentrate on her schooling. That is what really is important.