If you check and find out something unfavorable and don't say anything to her, then he does something to take advantage of her, you'll be the bad guy for NOT telling her.

Second, if you do find something and tell her, you may still be the bad guy BUT usually not for as long when she comes to her senses, which most women actually do.

I would definitely check however, whatever else you decide to do or not do.
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