Hi Wendyangell,
Welcome to the boomers' site. I have a special place in my
heart for grandmothers. My maternal grandmother was the sweetest
person I've ever known. She went to be with the Lord in 1961;
but she lives forever in my heart. I'm sorry you're going through
this situation. It does sound terribly painful. There's a
prayer thread on this forum, and I know everyone of these ladies
would gladly pray for you. I just sent a prayer to Heaven for you. Dotsie's suggestion was a wise idea. Google grandmother's
rights and see what you can find. God Bless!