Thanks for the book suggestions, Dotsie. I wil check them out.

Mom is terribly depressed, I guess thats 'normal' too. I am a bit ticked off at the doctor. I spoke to her about my mother's depressions and some other problems (2 weeks ago), and she still hasn't come around to see her. I will give the doctor a call tomorrow. This is not starting off good.

Orchid, yes, Hubby wants me by his side to make him happy. He is always welcome to accompany me when I do little trips with my mother or visit...but he refuses to. So, it's not my problem; - it's his.
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