Lola, I am sending you a BIG hug. You said just the right things. I knew them, but needed to ' hear' them. Now, like Orchid suggested, I just have to make sure Mom finds a social life outside of those walls. She has a single room, so at least she can withdraw to 'normality' there.
Don't know why I feel so weepy. Your posts got under my skin. It's also a double burden that I can't talk to my husband about my feelings. He's not interested and gets even impatient with me.
I'm so thankfull I have you gals as friends.
love and hugs
Edelweiss
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As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.
Goethe