The peacefull quiet shore will always win. Being just there for your daughter, in the background, and rebuilding your own life is the best thing you can do.

Maybe now you can take that real-estate course you once mentioned? Whatever, try to distract yourself constructively from your daughter. She will notice that too, and respect you for that.

It's hard Kate, I know. But I also know you will win your daughter in the end.
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As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.
Goethe