Oh my Gosh, Dancer, I read your post, and thought, why haven’t I thought of this myself?! Of course, it makes sense. Maybe my mother isn’t losing it; maybe she is suffering under OCD.
Tomorrow morning I will try to get a doctor’s appointment, and ask him to prescribe anti depressants. I hope you’re theory is right, because then she can be possibly helped. Thank you so much for this informative thought.

Lola,…my mother would got to the top authority at the senior home, and ask him if that was really a rule. She is still too clever, for me to be sneaky.

I feel so much better now. I think Dancer is onto something.
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As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.
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