Kate if all that stands in the way of your daughter moving back home is being near her girlfriend, what if you allowed the girlfriend to move in with you as well? You could set some strict ground rules and if she can't pay room and board then she can do housework etc. with your daughters help. That could solve many poroblems. Just a thought. Could also be fun having the girls around, and trip up your greedy husband.
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