This is complicated. When your partner served you court papers and wants $$, what is he asking for??

Hopefully your daughter realizes that at her age, there are personal responsibiities..either she goes back to school full time and work hard at her marks ..or get a job. No one outside her family, can look after her friend either. How else will her friend get money unless she works also?

Obviously your daughter does still view you as some sort of sounding board which is good to see.

Keep us posted Kate. It must hard to hold all this together yourself at times.
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