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#173545 - 02/03/09 02:49 PM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: Expat]
jabber Member Registered: 02/17/05 Posts: 10032 Loc: New York State	Expat, How are you doing? Wishing you well and hoping you find happiness! _________________________ https://www.amazon.com/author/bonnie.mill-lemke https://kdp.amazon.com/en_US/bookshelf
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#173556 - 02/03/09 03:12 PM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: jabber]
Dotsie Founder Registered: 07/09/08 Posts: 23647 Loc: Maryland	Am wondering the same. _________________________ Founder Emeritus of Boomer Women Speak and the National Association of Baby Boomer Women. www.nabbw.com www.boomerwomenspeak.com
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#173568 - 02/03/09 06:18 PM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: Dotsie]
chatty lady Writer Registered: 02/24/04 Posts: 20267 Loc: Nevada	Expat, just take all the time you need and when you're sure of what it is you want, follow your heart. _________________________ Take a peek at my BLOG: http://charleen-micheles.blogspot.com/
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#173638 - 02/04/09 09:22 AM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: chatty lady]
jabber Member Registered: 02/17/05 Posts: 10032 Loc: New York State	Amen! _________________________ https://www.amazon.com/author/bonnie.mill-lemke https://kdp.amazon.com/en_US/bookshelf
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#173710 - 02/05/09 03:32 AM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: jabber]
Expat Registered: 01/19/09 Posts: 71	Hi Ladies, I'm sorry I haven't been on. There are a few reasons for this. I've been taking some time to think about my circumstances, have not had a lot of private time. Hubby pops up now and again to see what I am doing on my computer and I certainly don't want him to see this site. The last is that I hope I am not boring you with my repetitive complaints. I know it's good to "vent" but I don't want to overdo it. Anyway, as always I need to go. Not having such good sleep nowadays,which is understandable, I tend to sleep a bit late, leaving me to rush to get to work. Have a nice day.
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#173711 - 02/05/09 03:35 AM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: Expat]
Expat Registered: 01/19/09 Posts: 71	Oh, and thank you all for being concerned. It's nice to have your support.
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#173749 - 02/05/09 08:04 AM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: Expat]
Dotsie Founder Registered: 07/09/08 Posts: 23647 Loc: Maryland	The sleep issue in pretty common when going through stressful times. Take your time. This is a major decision. Be well and take care of you. Just wondering if you're exercising... It certainly helps during stressful times like these. It may also help you sleep too. _________________________ Founder Emeritus of Boomer Women Speak and the National Association of Baby Boomer Women. www.nabbw.com www.boomerwomenspeak.com
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#173804 - 02/05/09 02:33 PM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: Dotsie]
Expat Registered: 01/19/09 Posts: 71	Hi Dotsie, Believe it or not, I actually started exercising before Christmas and it did help with my sleep. However, due to various health problems...I hurt my leg bowling too much (but it was fun!) then I sprained my back, so I haven't been back since. My time is running out for making my decision, as the next appointment with my solicitor is on Monday. I continue to imagine myself on my own with my son, and I feel so "free" (even if it's just in my mind), so I'm leaning towards leaving. As yet, I'm still not sure whether it will be a legal separation or straight into divorce. There are a lot of questions to be asked. Time for a cup of tea. I'll be in touch. Take care.
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#173829 - 02/05/09 07:43 PM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: Expat]
chatty lady Writer Registered: 02/24/04 Posts: 20267 Loc: Nevada	Get out the pen and pad and begin listing the pros and cons of divorce, and pros and cons of staying together. But be very honest because once its done it usually stays done. _________________________ Take a peek at my BLOG: http://charleen-micheles.blogspot.com/
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#173851 - 02/06/09 03:20 AM Re: Preparations for divorce [Re: chatty lady]
Expat Registered: 01/19/09 Posts: 71	That's a good idea, Chatty. Thanks. I'll do that this weekend. It may help make things clearer for me. Have a good day.
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