And he also wants free babysitting. She babysits now two days a week for $20.00 per night. He told her if she moves in she won't be paid as she isn't paying rent. So, she will have to babysit for nothing and I'm sure it will be a lot more than two nights per week, plus he wants child support from me.

I told him I am not going to do anything. He can go to court at his expense if he wants. He actually gave me two options: #1 agree to his terms or, #2, he will take me to court.

Good luck to him as he owes me and I don't have to pay him a cent until he pays up. By that time I'm sure my daughter will be back home. She's 18 in a year anyway so by the time he pays me back she may even have her own place if she decides not to move with me.

To be honest I have no idea how she will manage. Every time she goes there she tells me it's the crazy house. My ex is very intense, and has a mean temper. My younger two have not seen it that much as they never stay with him. He spanks his step daughter which makes me cringe. My daughter tells him to stop it.

She has no idea what she is going to have to deal with but I will be here waiting in the wings :-)
Kate