I got an email from the ex yesterday. He says my daughter is moving in this Friday. Told me I have two options, to work out an agreement or to go to court. He wants me to change our child support maintenance order. This from a guy who didn't pay me for 7 years after I left. He was not the least concerned that I had 3 children to support, two in diapers with little money. My daughter hasn't even moved in yet and he wants money.

He has never, ever even had them for weekend let alone a week in the summer which normal people do. He has never contributed to back to school supplies and up until last Christmas they didn't even get a Christmas present from him.

I'm shocked actually but I guess I shouldn't be.

I told him that I have no intentions of changing the order at this point. I gave my daughter 30 days and after that I'll think about it. I called Family Maintenance ( a gov't body here that monitors child support) They told me it doesn't matter if my daughter moves with him, he stil has to pay me as he is in arrears for $10,000 dollars.

What a jerk!

Kate