i think some mums do know and forwhatever reasons let it happen in thir owen home.
I also think some mums don't know either becouse of manipulasion of abuser for child not to tell or a quite secritive type of kid. Although i do wonder how some parents can ignore some kids reactions to people and the reactions over the top...but they do


anyway as a lot of this type of talk has adults being abused talking about thir abuser. What is heared less often and perhapps never is a carings mums perspective or a careing dads perspective as to how they din't know or explaned some strange behaviours away. I know how easie it is for kids to be angery with parents who should have knowen

id just like to know of parents who have done everything to protect their kids yet they fell through the net somehow.

id like the parents experinse and parhapps thir be a lot of learning to protect our kids within those experinses.

id be devistated if it was to happen to L so i can imagine a parent not wanting to think of it as happening i think my reaction would be to pull plugg on the whatever that had upset him or had spooked me rather than risk ignorring potencial sighnes.

anyone brave enough to give thir experinse?

the figures being what they are then thir has to be parebnts that are in this forum whos kids have been abused?

if not is thir any litriture on this from a parents perspective?