jabber do you think perhapps a person might reach a plato of healing, weer life's not too out of the ordinary, no strong assosiations or flashbacks or even giving the abuse much thought or thinking . Certinly after threrapie, time and healing.

what do you see it as being as good as it can get for some people?

i just wonder as most all of us are sensitised and have triggers to something or other. Would you think it possible to get to point that any emotional or mental responses isre't that far away from any other average lady on the street?

i get torn over the diffrering views and the implicasions behid those views.

a you never fullie heal, therfore thers gonna be damage for a lifetime verses a managable normal response to life and lifes situasions.
b total healing or normale functioning life being somehow interpreted well it could't been all that bad anyhow?

the infrense from either extreem never helpfull but could their be a balance or mid point avavable for most people?

just wonderring