Your right Dotsie, and deep down I know I shouldn't let him come here after getting out of jail. It would just be the same old thing. I need to break the cycle and will visit him.

As for my daughter, don't feel bad about laughing out loud, I did too. And be careful, he's my EX, not husband, a sore spot:-)

I was sitting listening to my daughter and her friends on facebook inviting everyone they know. I had to snicker. She hasn't mentioned it to me at all. I know it will get out of hand, and I know my ex will freak out as that is what he does, not to mention his girlfriend who can't handle much when it comes to my kids.

My son said he would go for a little while but will leave before the fireworks. He knows all to well what is going to happen and doesn't want to be there.

The train wreck will happen. It's kind of nice staying in the background just being there for her in a positive way.

Kate