The good thing Kate is that your son (who is struggling with his addictions, etc.) seems to want to keep in contact with you even though it can cause a dependency (for money, etc.) on you that is unrealistic, given his age, etc.

It could be a situation that he could choose to cut off communication from you. But he has not.
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