kate, remember teens don't always know what they want. I think they're just interested in trying something different because they can.

If I were you, I wouldn't do anything differently for at least the first month she/they are gone. From the sounds of it, I'm not so sure it's going to last. What if you move and she'they want to come back? Same with bringing someone to live in her room. Then you'd have to ask them to leave and that's so much change.

I'd sit still for now and give it a little time. MEanwhile, work on things of interest to you.
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