I am so glad that you came, too. Perhaps one day I will be able to post part of our conversation. I am not ready yet. I would just like to say to all of the mothers of teens out there - "trust your teens only so much - confirm their whereabouts not over their cell phone - make them account for where their money is being spent - don't believe everything that comes out of their mouths - they're teens and only human - we were all there once and know that we were not always truthful with our parents - no matter how involved you think you are, there could still be something going on - they think they are invincible - love them and check up on them - they need it!"