Read thru your thread here, EW..where I left off..and just want to let you know that I am thinking of you..and what is going on.."confused" is usually a good place to be in..it kind of helps you clean the slate..rock your boat..and perhaps set out in a new direction..in time..and that could be good.

I agree with the thought that a mom is always a mom..no matter how hopeless or successful she may be..and perhaps..just perhaps..you should tread carefully there..because little daughters become bigger girls/women..and maybe..just maybe..start longing for what is theirs. But on the otherhand..i think..there are no rules in relationships..each is so unique and different when everything comes around in the circle of life.I sound like some "old witch" stirring her brew and speaking her "wisdom" in the mists take it for what it is.. humlan´s ramblings as usual!

Good luck! And hugs..