Good Morning Ladies,
You've all got good points. We must work on ourselves first, to be our best selves, in order to have a successful relationship; hopefully, we all learned that the first time around in the romance dance. It's been quite an experience finding myself again after losing my husband, then working on that new self, learning new things, discovering a brand new life. But, I have to say that I'm with Chatty. I'm having a blast with friends, starting a new career and fully appreciating my independence and freedom. I loved my husband, he was a sweetheart, but I'm really not interested in looking around for love again. Men are a lot of trouble. I spent 35 years training the last one; don't think I have the time or patience to train another. I'm having too much fun as I am.
Copygal