As a student counsellor many people presented
All over the place
my task was to find what the thread was..its easy to be diverted..
and often the more shared the more things blur.
Thats why during training the senior trainer will try to waylay..and Humlans direct approach is comendable.
Few people can say.."This is my problem" If so clear then they would find a clear solution.

I feel when people are tired and Mama you say you were exhausted they need rest.Maybe sharing allowed you to rest.Respect your tiredness.
Yes Mama there are wise people here.
Mountain ash