Sounds like you can read well and see the big picture Humlan.
Early training and profesional expertise coupled with intuition.

Mama Red... traumatic week with so much happening .each poster can offer what they have to share and such a diverse group have unique responses.
You know mine..about re writing the ending...

The adrenal exhaustion have you sought naturopath/holistic help ?
Once well things settle into the space available like one of the snow in summer bowls..
Physical/Emotional/Spiritual health in a triangle.Something to aim for.work at.
Mountain ash