humlan, you misunderstood my post... the main point I was making was that a predicament like this can be expected to go-all-over-the-place. I spoke directly to you only because you pointed out that it did. I look on you as a caring, understanding, very intelligent woman, with a great deal of life experience to be shared with others. You can be mad at me and yell if you wish. I don't care to go there. I had no ill will in my post.