Yes, Dotsie, I did tell my son and he was hurt for me. We have always been very close. We had reached the point of whether we would stay together in Chicago, move to Indianapolis or he would move to PA to be near his best friend and his father's family.

He has made the decision to move to PA, and I was sad. Not just because of not having him around ... because he is moving to be near a woman he has loved for the last 3 years AND who has walked into, and out of his life. He hasn't had the best relationship model to follow and my prayers are that this will not hurt him as it has so many times before.

He had just started a job (working at Target) and within 3 months had received a small promotion. It would help bring some stability to his life if he would stay...and that is not my choice, it is his. My mom was ready to help him fund a studio apartment or something like that so he could stay here AND continue building on his current successes.

So, the wheel turns.