Dotsie, below is a screen shot (poor, for sure) of a thread you started under the Re-defining Life forum on 10/28/08.
I (and I'm sure others) can see the forum and access the thread IF I'm (we're) not signed in. (Note the arrowed items in screen shot.)
Once I sign in, the Re-defining Life forum is not visible. Hope you don't think us rude if we don't contribute to your "What makes you happy?" question - some of us can't respond due to inaccessibility. smile I think JJ explained it above... you and she have access, but some (possibly the rest of us) don't...