Thank you Gims for 1) reading the guidelines and 2) for giving further clarification. Skimming has, in some instances, brought on more discord than you would believe.

Also, remember that writing has the tone that YOU give it. You can read something here and immediately spin a tone to it that YOU give, not necessarily what the reader intended. So please, no knee jerk reactions!

Think about the person who posted it...are they a regular poster who gives freely of their time and heart? Or are they someone who comes in here just to stir things up? THINK ABOUT IT!

ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS IS AN OPEN FORUM. THE WORLD CAN READ WHAT YOU POST.

And lastly, if you have a problem with a post, send Dotsie or me a private email. Don't take up your sword and do battle in this open forum. This only stirs others to defend themselves, and who wouldn't?

Also, please know that Dotsie and I have NO secrets and share everything we do.

Everything is for the good of ALL women here.