Originally Posted By: Dotsie
I've never heard that quote, and I love it. "Marry the life you want to lead." What do you think girls? Makes total sense to me.


+1. I totally agree with this.

Cyclinggal, I'm sorry that he just didn't seem to be the right guy for you. If a potential partner is that confusing after knowing them for awhile..goodbye is probably the most healing thing for both of you. I guess if I was in your shoes, if I knew he was on dating online sites under different disguises, I would drop him immediately. I'm that sort of woman, ...I find it hard to date a guy when I know he's dating others.

Life is short. And time presses forward, not backward.

After reading these stories of opportunistic men, it makes me seriously wonder if I would ever be interested in a comfortable way, with another guy with the right stuff for me if I should outlive my partner.

I aim for a peace of mind in my old frail age. And if it's gonna be myself, so what. I've been there before until...I was 31 before I met my present sweetie.
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