Doctor Karen,
It is heartwarming, that after such a long time single, almost giving up, you have found someone with whom you are experiencing happiness, albeit long distance. And, I agree with you, that that has its benefits....giving you the time and freedom along with the anticipation of quality time together.
I've experienced the Internet dating scene, for longer than I should have. Now, I'm not inclined to approach it. In most cases, anyone can APPEAR to be anything and everything, but most likely, it is like putting a hook in the ocean and pulling who knows what kind of monster out. At least, that was my exp.
There is someone here locally that I know I could "date," if I chose to do so. I have known him professionally for years thru my art business. Our interests mesh, and he seems very nice, but...what is it? Is it an age thing? I just resist encouraging him! I think at this stage, I've realized it's better for me to be alone as I really enjoy the peace and contentment!
Love
Patty