I totally agree with the "A"s mentioned earlier.

I've been married twice, and both men were unfaithful. So that is a HUGE, big, fat, hairy deal in my book.

Also if a man is needy, jealous and/or possessive. I've been alone for many years now, and have created a life that I love. He would have to be secure enough for me to pursue the interests and dreams that I have, even if they sometimes involved my being away from home without him.

Whirlwind