Wow there must be an epidemic going on! I too have pulled away from my dear son and DIL and there kids. They have separeted and each call me asking, whos right ma? Like I'd be dumb enough to get in the middle of that. I did tell them I was thoroughly ticked off that NO one ever calls me unless they need me for sometrhing and I am sick to death of that. Either be there for me as i am for you when its needed or go away and stay away, i have had it. So besides you all and a few social friends here in town I may as well be a hermit. Not fun but at least I can sleep peacefully at night, and another reason I want to move far away from here. I guess the saying is right, we come into this world naked and alone and will go out the same way...